As students transition from high school to university, parents and families often find themselves shifting their roles, from daily monitors to insightful mentors. This transformation involves a focus on students’ evolving values and needs, allowing parents to play a supportive role in guiding their child in the higher educational journey. In this article, we offer practical insights to help parents and families guide their children effectively through this transformative stage.
Observing and listening
Being a mentor begins with keen observation and active listening. Pay attention to your child’s experiences, challenges, and aspirations. By understanding their perspectives, you can offer more relevant guidance.
Supporting autonomy
Guiding with a purpose involves finding the right balance between providing guidance and allowing autonomy. Encourage your child to explore their interests, learn from mistakes, and embrace independence for personal growth.
Recognising strengths and acknowledging challenges
Acknowledge your child’s strengths and talents, while also recognising their challenges. Show empathy and deliver constructive feedback to help students overcome obstacles.
